How to Ask Your Girlfriend About Having a Threesome?

 

It’s said that most guys dream of having a threesome, and while many dream, few manage in their life to fulfill this common yet taboo sexual fantasy. You might have thought about asking your girlfriend if she would like one, or at least what are her thoughts on threesomes, but simply didn’t have the guts to do it.

However, we have some good news for you. Although girls might not admit it, they have their own weak desires, and your girlfriend might be generous enough to offer you this exciting life experience if she really loves you.

Next time you are thinking about talking about this with your girlfriend, these three tips might come in handy.

Find the right time and the right place. If she’s the type that considers anything out of the ordinary as a No-no, then you might have a hard time convincing her to bring another girl into the bedroom. Each girl is unique, and that’s why you need to approach her at the right time and place.

The worst idea is to ask about threesomes when just starting a relationship (that’s if you are serious about it) or while drunk. In both cases, she might feel pushed, and she will most likely harvest thoughts of jealously, as well as of feeling used.

If you are into a serious relationship for some time now, then the best way to bring the subject into discussion is in a natural and relaxed way when talking about sex. She might consider it because in this situation you already inspire trust and commitment in her eyes.

Assure her that she is still number one. You’ve managed to bring threesomes into your sex discussion, and she is not necessarily the shy girl that would say No. You must now know how to pick the right words to suggest her your intentions, as well as that she remains your number one.

This is important because women are in general jealous creatures. Many of them simply go insane by simply imagining their boyfriends with other women, let alone see him doing another chick.

While you might suggest why a threesome would be a great sexual experience and who should take part in it, you need to let her know that you are doing this for you two, as a couple, and not just because you find her friend attractive.

Be sincere. You mean the world to her, and there’s nothing worse for your girlfriend than a bunch of lies. Think about why would you want a threesome and be honest with her. If she says No, then she’s simply the type of girl that wouldn’t go further than the traditional way of doing sex. That’s why we consider that it’s important to know your girlfriend’s sexuality well before.

If she is sexually curious herself, and you have the necessary skills to persuade her with sincere reasons, then she would go along with you in this new sexual adventure.

Bottom Line. Your girlfriend is human, too, and should understand that you have hidden desires like every guy out there. If she cares about you, she might take into consideration about bringing under the sheets another woman when it’s time to rock the bed. Who knows? Maybe her hot best friend is dire to try it out with you.

Communication and trust are everything in a relationship. That’s why we consider that you have nothing to lose if you ask your girlfriend for a threesome. Just follow these three pieces of advice, and you could get lucky enough to have your sexual dream come true.