Find two-way sex boring and seeking the third person?

So you have mastered the art of two-way sex and you find it almost boring regardless of what new positions you and your partner try.

The fact that you are reading this article right now means you are either a really curious person or you are ready to up your sex game by including a third person.

Spoiler alert…

It’s not as easy as it seems!

But

This article would provide our esteemed readers (that’s you!) with 4 threesome tips to help you plan a threesome properly and avoid the very unsavory awkward outcomes that a threesome could have.

Chances are that you in a relationship and looking to spice up the sexing with your partner or you are, in urban metaphorical terms a “unicorn”. A unicorn in this context is not the mythical horse-like animal, a threesome unicorn is an urban term used to describe the third person in a threesome willing to indulge in the act with a couple.

Emphasis on the willing!

While some people consider threesomes the holy grail of sex, some others consider it the "don't you dare think about it" of sex. Hey, different strokes for different folks, right?

There are a million possible reasons people could love or loathe threesomes but if you fall in the category of the former, it is important to note that adding that third willing person (the unicorn) to the mix goes beyond just having an extra set of boobies or body generally to play with. In our previous articles, we highlighted that fact that threesomes could spark emotions that could lead to potential problems.

 For example in a female-male-female threesome, the second female could fall in love with anyone of the partners and one of the primary partners could get jealous – this is the genesis of a catastrophe!

 Regular couple sex is hard enough… adding an extra person? You’re going to need these tips. If you want an awesome threesome in place of an awkward emotional rollercoaster then you need to school yourself beforehand!

Here are 4 Threesome Tips for Three-way Enthusiasts

Be sure that everyone involved is truly involved.

We cannot overemphasize this tip. Do not get in a threesome if you don’t find both parties sexually appealing. On the other side of the divide, if you are the “unicorn”, be sure that both parties really find you attractive. In fact, you all need to sit down and have a talk that goes beyond giggling at the prospect of what you are about to do.

It is important that everyone involved really wants to be there and no one would (in the case of a male-female-male threesome) have a panic when dicks touch.

Be attracted to… but not fatally attracted to the other party.

In simpler terms… do not fall in love.

Yes, we said you should be attracted to the other person but we specifically used the term “sexually appealing”. Because even though threesomes are not just about sex, they are still within the sphere where it should be “just a sexual experiment”. Except you are looking to take the encounter from a one-off threesome to actual threesome dating, do not go falling in love with anyone of your partners.

The “feeling” must be mutual.

When we say “feeling” we don’t mean emotions… we actually mean that all parties involved in a threesome must be actively involved at all times and not be neglected. Do not let any participant feel like they are left out except someone asks that they watch.

On the other hand, you might want to consider negotiating several encounters such that within every encounter there is a "focus partner". This way, you can effectively discard the pressure of trying to please everyone at the same time. .

Condom Mechanics In the case of a female-male-female encounter, it is a lot easier and better for the sex dynamic to use two female condoms. It just takes the fun out when you keep switching up condoms from one partner to another!

In the end, the threesome lifestyle is not for the faint-hearted!